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12/09/08

Sulitkah Menjadi Pria Bijaksana?

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Sulitkah Menjadi Pria Bijaksana?
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PRIA mana pun selalu menginginkan hubungannya bersama sang kekasih berjalan mulus. Tetapi teori sering kali tak sesuai dengan praktik, di mana masalah selalu datang dan pergi menghampiri hubungan sepasang kekasih.

Ketika hubungan sedang bermasalah pun, pria selalu dituntut menjadi sosok yang bijaksana dalam menyelesaikan setiap masalah. Sulitkah menjadi pria bijaksana?

Tentu saja tidak sulit, selama Anda mau mempraktikkan rumus jitu menjadi pria bijakasana, seperti dikutip dari Health24.

Adil membagi waktu

Anda boleh saja sibuk bekerja, namun bukan berarti Anda tak ada waktu untuk memberikan perhatian kepada sang kekasih. Ketahuilah bahwa wanita itu juga sangat merindukan perhatian dan kasih sayang dari pasangannya. Oleh karena itu Anda harus lebih bijaksana mengatur waktu antara urusan kantor dan percintaan.

Meletakkan kepentingan keluarga dan kekasih secara seimbang

Anda mungkin mengalami dilema apabila sang kekasih menuntut Anda untuk selalu memprioritaskan kepentingannya ketimbang keluarga Anda sendiri. Namun, tetaplah bersikap bijaksana untuk menjelaskannya bahwa keluarga juga mempunyai arti penting buat Anda. Oleh karena itu Anda bisa menjalankan kepentingan keluarga dan kekasih secara seimbang.

Memberikan kepercayaan penuh kepada pasangan

Sebuah hubungan percintaan akan berjalan dengan baik apabila Anda dan pasangan menanamkan rasa saling percaya yang mendalam. Anda pun tak perlu terpengaruh oleh gosip yang tidak jelas, yang bisa membuat hubungan percintaan Anda bersama kekasih menjadi retak.
 
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4 Tanda Wanita Ingin Mengikatmu

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4 Tanda Wanita Ingin Mengikatmu
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HUBUNGAN percintaan yang telah lama dibina tentunya ada rencana yang indah di balik semuanya. Pernikahan merupakan awal sebuah rumah tangga di mana hubungan percinta yang telah dibina sekian lama menuju satu titik terang. Tetapi bagaimanakah dengan kalian, para pria yang masih ingin lebih lama menjalin hubungan dan belum siap untuk menikah?
 
Menurut berita yang dilansir askmen, ada beberapa hal yang dilakukan wanita untuk mengikat pria dalam sebuah tali perkawinan, seperti dibawah ini :

Dia menceritakan rencana pernikah kalian di depan umum
Tanpa ada persetujuan dari dirimu, dia langsung menceritakan rencana pernikahan kalian. Padahal tidak ada kesepakatan di antara kalian berdua. Tentunya hal ini akan membuatmu bingung dengan segudang pertanyaan dari orang banyak.
 
Dia membatasi dirimu berkomunikasi dengan wanita lain
Dalam hal ini, seperti seorang yang posesif, dia akan selalu mengawasimu dan membatasi komunikasimu dengan para wanita. Walaupun itu hanya masalah pekerjaan, tetapi rasa cemburunya yang besar bisa membuatmu dalam sebuah masalah yang besar.
 
Dia meneleponmu setiap saat
Jika kamu terlalu sulit untuk ditemui, telepon merupakan salah satu jawaban yang tepat dan cepat untuk menghubungi dirimu. Selama ponselmu bisa dihubungi tentunya dia tidak akan ragu-ragu untuk menghubungimu. Pastinya dia akan menanyakan kapan pernikahan kalian dapat secepatnya berlangsung.
 
Dia akan menceritakan rencana pernikahan kalian kepada keluargamu
Tidak hanya di depan umum dia meyebarkan rencana pernikahan kalian bahkan dia tidak segan-segan untuk mengungkapkan rencana indah pernikahan kalian kepada keluargamu. Jangan kaget dulu, tetapi cobalah untuk menjelaskan apa yang terjadi dalam hubungan kalian kepada keluargamu.
 
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Hubungan Mapan di Pernikahan Bikin Wanita Malas Ngeseks

Hubungan Mapan di Pernikahan Bikin Wanita Malas Ngeseks
 
 
Majalah Seks Konseling - Makin lama menikah, ternyata membuat wanita makin malas berhubungan seks. Peneliti asal Jerman membuktikan, menurunnya gairah wanita dipicu karena hubungan yang semakin nyaman dan mapan.
 
Frekuensi hubungan seks yang semakin menurun kerap menjadi keluhan pasangan yang sudah menikah selama beberapa tahun. Keluhan ini kadang bisa berbuntut serius hingga perceraian.

Umumnya, pihak yang wanita yang lebih sering mengeluh kehilangan gairah seks setelah beberapa tahun masa pernikahan. Sedangkan pria, seperti telah diberitakan sebelumnya, juga bisa mengalami gangguan gairah jika tertekan karena stress pekerjaan dan masalah lainnya.

Kesimpulan beberapa peneliti Jerman mungkin bisa membantu menguak penyebab masalah ini. Menurut peneliti dari Universitas Hamburg-Eppendorf, gairah seksual wanita mulai menyusut ketika ia merasa semakin nyaman dalam pernikahannya. Demikian indiatimes, Rabu (23/8/2006)

Usut punya usut, hal ini bisa saja ada hubungannya dengan naluri masing-masing jenis kelamin dalam mempertahankan hubungannya. Pria lebih terdorong untuk menjaga gairah seksualnya untuk 'mengamankan' pasangannya dari 'serangan' pria lain. Sedangkan wanita lebih mengutamakan membina hubungan yang kuat dan kedekatan yang intens dengan pasangan untuk masa depan yang aman bagi dirinya dan anak-anaknya.

Setelah empat tahun pernikahan, hanya separuh wanita dalam penelitian ini yang mengaku ingin tetap bercinta secara teratur. Sebaliknya, gairah seksual para pria tetap tinggi tak peduli seberapa lama usia pernikahannya.

Penelitian yang melibatkan 500 orang usia 30-45 tahun itu juga membuktikan keinginan wanita untuk dibelai dan diperlakukan dengan lembut tak berubah seiring dengan usia pernikahan. Sedangkan, hanya seperempat pria di atas usia 30 tahun dan sudah menikah selama 10 tahun yang merasa masih membutuhkan hal tersebut.

Dua pertiga wanita usia 30 tahun masih memiliki gairah yang tinggi untuk bercinta, namun setelah empat tahun pernikahan jumlah tersebut menurun hingga separuhnya. Dalam penelitian ini, tak ditemukan adanya penurunan yang signifikan dalam gairah seksual pria.

Setelah beberapa tahun menikah dan semakin percaya pada pasangannya, wanita lebih senang bergandengan tangan atau berpelukan yang nyaman, ketimbang bercinta penuh gairah. Wanita lebih mementingkan kenyamanan emosional dan stabilitas hubungan ketimbang seks dan keintiman fisik semata.

Nah, hal ini lah yang kerap menjadi masalah bagi banyak pasangan. Jika tidak diatasi dengan komunikasi yang baik, masalah ini bisa berujung pada perpisahan, bahkan perceraian.

Jika enggan menempuh konseling pernikahan, pasangan bisa mengatasi masalah ini lewat berbagai cara. Diantaranya dengan mencoba lebih terbuka ketika berkomunikasi, lebih banyak menghabiskan waktu berdua,berlibur berdua, dan berusaha bercinta secara teratur.

Untuk Anda, pasangan yang tidak melakukan aktivitas seks selama beberapa bulan, sebaiknya mulailah berubah. Pasangan yang stop bercinta bisa mengalami hypochondria atau timbulnya penyakit-penyakit fisik. Hypochondria tersebut muncul karena sebab-sebab psikologis atau stress.

Sumber: detikcom

08/09/08

BARGAIN MEDICINE ; Outsourcing the Drug Industry

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India and China are happy hunting grounds for U.S. pharmaceutical companies looking for talented scientists.
 
US giants are rushing to partner with Indian and Chinese companies -- tapping their brainpower and saving millions of dollars in the search for breakthrough treatments.
 
In her swank headquarters just blocks from some of Mumbai's worst slums, Swati Piramal is midway through an impassioned pitch about revolutionizing the world of drug discovery. Sanskrit passages of the Bhagavad Gita, the ancient Hindu text that guides her business philosophy, adorn the office walls of her company, Piramal Life Sciences. Its logo is gyan mudra, a finger gesture used in yoga meditation resembling the Western sign for "A-O.K."
 
Journey now to Bangalore. After a crawl through the city's notorious traffic and a bone-rattling ride over a cratered road that washes away with each rainfall, the four-wheel-drive van arrives at the glistening, ocean liner-shaped headquarters of Jubilant Biosys. The laboratories inside are world-class. But when equipment fails, repairs often take a week, scientist Ajith Kamath explains sheepishly. Lunch is Domino's pizza with toppings that include corn, Indian paneer cheese, and hot spices. Turns out Jubilant is co-owner of India's Domino's franchise.
 
At first glance, companies such as Jubilant and Piramal may seem too undeveloped -- or perhaps just too culturally remote -- to rub shoulders with the world's top pharmaceutical makers. But judging from all the deals taking shape in India, they may have a critical role to play in the industry's future. In recent months, Western executives have been flocking to India's hastily built science parks, looking for allies in the never-ending quest to develop blockbuster treatments. With little fanfare, they've started a process that could lead to wide-scale outsourcing of drug research to Asia.
 
Five Western companies have formed drug discovery partnerships with Jubilant, including Eli Lilly, Amgen, and Forest Laboratories. Lilly is also partnering with Piramal, as is Merck. Every month deals are signed with India's elite pharmaceutical companies. The goal is to take promising compounds discovered by the multinationals, run tests to weed out the weakest candidates, and develop some of the others into marketable drugs. Eventually the Indian partners also hope to rack up scientific breakthroughs that lead to entirely new medicines for diseases such as Alzheimer's, cancer, or diabetes.
 
Looking beyond India's potholed streets and poverty, Western drug executives say they've forged a powerful model for research collaboration. The timing is no accident. Despite spending billions at home on technologies to turn gene-based discoveries into new medicines, pharmaceutical companies are struggling to come up with revolutionary products that will pull them out of a five-year slump with virtually no revenue growth. In desperation, the drug giants are paying hefty premiums to swallow biotech companies -- witness Roche's $44 billion bid to purchase Genentech in July.
 
What the multinationals now seek from India is the same combination of brainpower and cost savings that made the subcontinent a leader in software and computer services. Some Western companies are volunteering to share intellectual-property rights on new discoveries and even divvy up the profits. "It's a transformation of the R&D enterprise," says Robert W. Armstrong, Lilly's vice-president for global external research. "We have to think in a totally different mode."
 
The rush east, where five PhD chemists can be had for the cost of one in the West, entails risks. At a time when Pfizer, AstraZeneca and others are slashing U.S. R&D jobs by the thousands, the buildup in Asia is bound to set off alarms that America is sacrificing another key industry through radical outsourcing. But if the strategy works, it could save the drug industry billions of dollars, bring down the prices of new drugs, and accelerate breakthroughs.
 
The impact of research outsourcing will be amplified greatly as China, with an even bigger pool of biochemists, expands its role. Lilly, Sanofi-Aventis, and others have already struck up partnerships there. China has "extraordinary potential," says Eric J. Topol, former chief cardiologist at the Cleveland Clinic, who advises HUYA Bioscience, a drug licensing venture based in San Diego. China could yield "a flood of potentially important therapies. It's just a matter of time."
 
The East-West research collaborations are new and have yet to produce a single drug. But many Western executives say they're stunned at how quickly the Indian industry is achieving targets set by the joint ventures. Just a few decades ago, India was a outcast in the pharma business. To the outrage of Western multinationals, New Delhi in the 1970s declared it would cease honoring patents on pharmaceuticals.
 
Thousands of generic drugmakers then sprouted up, reverse-engineering Western medicines and distributing them in India and in other developing countries. The Indian executives argued they were providing a social service, selling antibiotics, say, for a fraction of what Western patent holders demanded. In the 1990s, Indian generics makers Cipla and Ranbaxy Laboratories started selling AIDS cocktails in India and Africa at just $1 per dose.
 
Even Indian drug executives, however, realized the knockoff business is a dead end. Almost all of India's top pharma managers say their cherished goal is to stamp out diseases in the Third World. That will require breakthrough medicines, not factories full of pirated generics. They also recognize the only way to jump-start a modern industry is through collaboration with Western drug companies. So in 2003, New Delhi reversed course and said it would protect the rights of foreign patent holders.
 
The first collaborations involved fairly simple lab work, mainly to save on labor costs. The Indians wanted more responsibility. But while India had plenty of good chemists who could crank out drug knockoffs, it lacked biologists with the deep knowledge and experience to develop novel compounds.
 
When Sandeep Gupta, a former Forest Labs research director, toured Indian pharma companies in 2006, he urged the CEOs to import talent fast. "I told them unless they expanded their biology capability, I couldn't [make deals] with them," he says. Soon, local drugmakers were snatching up thousands of Indian-born biologists who had trained abroad and offering them leadership opportunities. Jubilant nabbed Kamath, a 14-year veteran of Pfizer, to head its nascent structural biology department, and V.N. Balaji, who had worked at Monsanto and Allergan, as chief scientific officer. The company quickly expanded its team of 50 chemists and drug discovery experts to an army of 700. "If you told me five years ago this would all be here today, I would have replied 'no way,' " Kamath says.
 
Over time, the partnerships evolved into co-development arrangements. The turning point was a 2003 collaboration between GlaxoSmithKline and Ranbaxy. Glaxo handed over novel compounds thought to have medicinal value and offered its Indian partner a share of the intellectual-property rights and millions in royalties if it could help develop a commercial drug. Western drug companies have announced about $400 million worth of such deals so far, but the total value is probably much higher. BristolMyersSquibb, for example, has expanded a research partnership with Bangalore-based Biocon. It includes a state-of-the-art research facility that will house 400 scientists --the cost of which has not been announced.
 
For the Western partners, the first objective in these alliances is to cut costs. In the U.S., specialized research outsourcing firms will charge a drug company $250,000 and up for the full-time services of a PhD chemist. With an Indian partner, the same work can be done for roughly one-fifth the cost. But what Western companies long for, more than anything, is to replenish their drug development pipelines. It can cost as much as $100 million to nurture a potential drug from a germ of an idea to the point where it is tested in people. After all that, the odds of any drug winning Food & Drug Administration approval are just 1 in 8. By conducting many experiments in low-cost Asia, the drug companies believe they can run more projects while keeping R&D budgets flat. In other words, they gain "more shots on goal" -- a phrase that gets repeated so frequently you'd think it's a quote from a sacred Indian text.
 
The other catchphrase that comes up constantly is "fail fast, fail cheap." When scientists study potential drugs in the test tube and then in animals, they detect many problems that ultimately cause drugs to fail, such as toxic side effects or inadequate absorption in the body. Killing projects at that stage is essential, because most of the cost to develop a drug -- a few hundred million dollars, typically -- comes later, during human clinical trials. In effect, Western drugmakers want to front-load the failures through early-stage screening in India, says C.S.N. Murthy, CEO of Bangalore-based Aurigene. "Here, you can get four failures for the price of one."
 
In the early days, Western executives were suspicious of their Indian partners with their history of drug knockoffs. Yet they were also powerfully attracted. Mervyn Turner, a senior research vice-president at Merck, says his first trip to India in November 2007 was "mind-blowing." He was impressed by the local companies' yearning to do world-class research and by their passionate, charismatic leaders. In Mumbai, he met Piramal, the Harvard-educated daughter of a textile mogul, who explained that she chose medicine to find a cure for polio. She's "a force of nature," he says.
 
A look inside Forest Lab's partnership with Aurigene shows both the strengths of the new research model and the hurdles it faces. Forest has given Aurigene some prized, proprietary data on how novel drugs might attack metabolic disorders such as diabetes. Aurigene's job is to screen a library of therapeutic chemicals and come up with a drug. Each company has assigned three senior staff to a "joint research council," and parallel teams of chemists and biologists keep in constant touch via teleconferences. Murthy says speed is of the essence. While large U.S. labs struggle with bureaucracy, "in a place like this, a scientist makes some computations in the morning, and by the afternoon he has all the data. He doesn't call a meeting. He walks up to a colleague and stands over him until he gets what he needs." Forest and Aurigene recently designed a drug and started animal tests in just three months -- a quick kick-off by U.S. and European standards.
 
Western drug companies are giving Asian partners more responsibilities than they ever imagined. Suven Life Sciences, an Indian startup in Hyderabad, is co-developing drugs for brain diseases with Lilly. As part of the deal, Suven can work on its own drugs for Alzheimer's, obesity, and Parkinson's disease, provided they don't compete with jointly developed products. Early on, Lilly sought to impose restrictions on Suven's own research. "We didn't have any flexibility," says CEO Venkat Jasti. But as the relationship evolved, Jasti prevailed on his U.S. partners to toss that paperwork in the trash. "We can't do it the Lilly way," Jasti says. "Innovation comes from freedom."
 

SEXISM IN GERMANY ; Universities Rewarded for Hiring Women Professors

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There are plenty of women in Germany pursuing a Ph.D. Statistics show, though, that advancing any further is extremely difficult.
 
Only one in six professors in Germany is a woman. But Germany's Education Ministry is trying to redress the huge gender imbalance. It is giving 79 universities extra funding to employ more female lecturers and professors.
 
Chancellor Angela Merkel may be running the country, but for many other women in Germany, the glass ceiling is firmly in place -- with one of the biggest gender pay gaps in the European Union and a glaring absence of women in top management positions. So it comes as no surprise that women also find it difficult to forge ahead in the male-dominated world of German academia.
 
While women make up 50 percent of the student body, they only account for 40 percent of those pursuing doctorates. Once you start going up the stairs in the ivory tower, the presence of women becomes even rarer. Only 24 percent of university lecturers are women, and a paltry 15 percent of the country's 38,000 tenured professors are female.
 
The German Education Ministry is hoping to make a dent in those figures by paying the salary of between one and three female professors or lecturers at universities that prove a commitment to redressing this gender imbalance. On Wednesday, Education Minister Annette Schavan, a member of Chancellor Angela Merkel's Christian Democrats, revealed the results of the first round of a competition for getting these extra funds.
 
The government has committed €150 million ($216 million) to its equal-opportunities program for universities, with the aim of eventually creating 200 additional posts for highly qualified female academics. Each post will be funded for five years -- to the tune of €150,000 a year -- with the federal government and the states splitting the costs between them. In the first of two rounds, a 15-member jury selected 79 successful universities out of a total of 113 bids, which represented around a third of all German universities.
 
To secure the funding, the universities had to submit plans that proved that they wanted get more women into top academic positions by changing the structures at the university in a long-term and sustainable way. Universities from 15 of the 16 German federal states secured the funding. All five applications from the state of Saxony were turned down, while both Berlin and Hesse had all of their applications approved.
 
Announcing the results of the selection process on Wednesday, Schavan said the program was designed to "promote more excellent female researchers to top positions." She added that it should give young women "role models and motivation for their own academic careers," while "female talent in leading positions will give research and development a new boost."
 
smd -- with wire reports
 

AUTOBAHN STUNT ; Police Chase Skateboarding Daredevil

YouTube ; Police are looking for this guy.
 
Lots of people like to go fast on the autobahn. But police in Germany are now looking for a skateboarder who hit 100 kilometers per hour on a stretch of motorway near Stuttgart. The stunt came to their attention via a video posted on YouTube.
 
The video seems like it could come straight out of a Jackass sequel. A helmeted man in a black and red bodysuit tears along the Ulm-Stuttgart autobahn in southern Germany -- on a skateboard. Click replay on YouTube and he does it again, accelerating by holding on to the back of a motorcycle before letting go and bombing down a steep hill at speeds of over 100 kilometers per hour (60 mph).
 
But it's not just thrill-seeking desk jockeys who have been repeatedly clicking into the video. German police have also taken an interest. And they are tying to track down the skateboarder with the help of the movie and fine him for breaking motorway laws and for endangering motorists.
 
According to a report in the Stuttgarter Nachrichten, the video -- filmed largely by a cameraman sitting on the back of the motorcycle but which also includes shots from numerous chase cars and what seems like a camera in the skateboarder's helmet -- appeared online in June. The police didn't become aware of it until weeks later. The stunt was broadcast by German television networks on Wednesday, once the media learned of it.
 
Many German autobahns have no speed limits, but the skateboarder picked a stretch in Göppingen, near Stuttgart, with a speed limit of 80 kilometers per hour. Police are looking to slap a speeding fine on the skateboarder, who they believe is professional stuntman.
 
"We put out an all-points bulletin and have received information that gives us useful clues as to who the man may be," Goeppingen police spokesman Uli Stöckle told Reuters. "We are particularly concerned about copycats who may imitate the stunt, putting their lives at risk."
 
When asked by SPIEGEL ONLINE to confirm a report that police had managed to find one of the cars that accompanied the stunt, Stöckle had no comment. The official world record for skateboard speediness -- excluding those who have rocketed along while holding on to motorcycles and other vehicles -- is held by Gary Hardwick, according to the Guiness Book of World Records. Hardwick hit a downhill speed of 62.55 miles per hour during a race in Arizona.
 
rbn -- with wire reports
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